Sex: the Viagra Way of sexuality

Since the dawn of civilization the culminating point of a love relationship between two lovers was described as making physical love, or in a raw language 'having sex.' Ancient and modern literature from most of the cultures has taken the concept of lovemaking to the level of ecstasy and art. Psychologists found out through analysis that sex plays most important role in a love relationship, within lovers as well as between husband and wife. State laws have allowed divorce on the basis of inability to perform sex in either of the married couple. Sexuality is an essential component of life, and the impact is undeniable, both mentally and physically. To both sexes, male and female, sexual prowess and sexual ability to have sex is associated with their inner ego. But what results when your ego is hurt at the bottom?

                                                                                                                                                       

Erectile dysfunction is something that hits a man below the belt and leaves the man hopeless and extremely frustrated. The consequences of ED do not wait for my explanations; I know you can very well understand. May be some of you, who are reading my article, have actually gone through this phase of life, or presently going through. Until recently, erectile dysfunction was a hush-hush matter and men were ashamed of discussing their penile weakness even to their doctor. Avoiding sex night after night giving meaningless excuses, on the other hand, leads to making the wives doubtful of their husbands' fooling around. Men were leading life as if there were no solution to it; this conclusion was drawn after going through all the "operation impossible" s. I know it is a long story of pain and suffering. Hold it before you lose the last hope, there is a spark of light at the end of the tunnel...Viagra.

You have heard about it but never tried it, am I right? Are you expecting any kind of assurance from a trusted source that you will not be blind after taking Viagra pill? Let me tell you that it’s not Viagra that caused the blindness but it was the reaction and the outcome of taking Viagra without prescription and not abiding by the restrictions given on the label. Again, Sildenafil, the main ingredient of Viagra, not only gives you stronger erection per pill, it actually treats Priapism, a disease related to painful erection for more than 6 hours without stimulate sexual desire. At the same time, Viagra can slowly correct mechanism of the blood flow to the penis. If you were reluctant on the issue of discussing your ED with your wife, just go and see your physician and talk to him about your physical condition, ask him if you can take Viagra and get back to normal sexual life.

I do not consider the idea of living with ED as a good one. Since the introduction of Viagra, things have changed so fast that people are no longer referring to male erection problem as impotence, but a new term has popped up for it, 'erectile dysfunction' that is more scientific and less ego-hurting. Impotent is no longer a male characteristic or image, rather a name of a disease that is treatable. The impossible was made possible only by Viagra, the pioneer sex pill to cure my erectile dysfunction. Why not try it and enjoy even better sexual life?

Is Having Sex During Pregnancy Safe?

Once you hear that you are going to be Parents, you become thrilled and in this excitement forget about all the ups and downs that pregnancy brings along with it. However, when the initial euphoria dies down, different issues emerges among them especially regarding doing sex with your partner. There are different issues that emerge in your mind. Knowing them can let you lead your sexual life during the pregnancy period happily.

Having sex during pregnancy

If you are having normal pregnancy, then you can make love with your partner, till the water breaks. It doesn't make you inability to perform sex. You just need not worry that getting intimate during this period may lead to vaginal infection and or miscarriage. Even there are fewer chances that if you have normal sex during this period then you have least chances of miscarriage. Thus, don’t hesitate and enjoy your sexual relationship most when it is needed.

Sex and Baby

Many to-be- mothers are worried that sex may harm their baby. It’s not that, nature has designed humans in such a way that it has created a thick mucus plug which guards against any infection by sealing your cervix. The strong muscles of your uterus and the amniotic sac are enough to protect your baby. However, if you have these problems then please consult your Doctor

·        -Abdominal pains or cramps

·        -Bleeding

·        -Broken water

·        -Cervical weakness

If your husband is suffering from genital herpes then you should avoid sex during this period.

Feeling during having sex when pregnant

Many women feel the same as they had felt having sex with their partner earlier. However, for some it’s even better while others it’s not that good.

During pregnancy, the blood flow increases to your pelvic area that causes your genitals to engorge. Hence the sexual sensation is at its height. After the intercourse many women feel full like never before during this period. However, many may find that they cannot reach intense orgasm quickly as earlier during pregnancy. This occurs generally because clitoris is less sensitive during this period.

If you have ever find that during intercourse you are feeling pain, then it may be due to deep penetration, this pain can be avoided by shallow penetration or by following proper postures during this period.

It has been seen that many couples prefers and enjoys foreplay during this period rather than doing intercourse. It do boost sexual desire during foreplay, she wants you more and more. What is needed most is that you must be satisfied with your partner and relationship, whatever method you apply.

Oral sex during pregnancy

Oral sex during pregnancy is totally safe and it would never harm your baby. And this is the best solution when you find intercourse during this period risky. Only thing that your husband must avoid is blowing air in the vagina as it may block a blood vessel and cause embolism, which can prove fatal for your baby.

Husband’s feelings during pregnancy

It happens many times that your husband’s sex drives changes during pregnancy. During first two trimesters he may be normal, but during the third one, he may not feel having sexual relationship with you. Common reasons for such behaviour are

·        -Fearing about hurting the baby

·        -Worried about your and your baby’s health

 -Feelings about the parenthood.

Activities that can get her in the mood for sex

Have you ever experience being reject for sex by your partner? It's not about inability to perform sex. It will happen even if you know how to stimulate or seduce her, but by learning more you can increase your chance to get her into the bed. There are some of the time that you think that she is ready for sex, even with your marvelous foreplay technique can't let her feel excited. These are some of the activities that can help you to stimulate her and make her feel like want to have sex. These activities is going to get her into the mood but not a guarantee that she will be turn on right away.

One of the best things I like to do is massage, massage gives you the chance of your hand running most part of her body and she may give you a massage after that. While you are giving massage to her, you may find those special spot that may turn her on without notice. I don't mean her breast or neck, her head, ear and back may be a good place to start. The power of pressure you put on her head is crucial, not too hard unless she requested so. Sometimes I would like to do this while watching a movie, if porn is too obvious then you may try some mainstream movie that is very seductive. Find some movies that you know that can turn on both of you. This also extend the whole love making process thus lasting longer in bed.

Talking about touching each other, yoga class and dancing is definitely activities you can't miss. There are yoga design for couples to increase intimacy, Tantric yoga. And guys I believe you fancy of different Kama sutra sex position and I believe you watch those porn that the girl is very flexible in different sexual position. Well this is a good chance for both of you to learn and make your body more flexible, I believe it can bring your sexual experience with your partner to the next level. Same with dancing, it will stimulate and boost testosterone level while dancing, and your hand maybe naughty a bit during the dance.

Take a vacation, this may spend some money but it's quite good for a different sexual experience as you let her know that she worth it and you want her to have a better sexual experience. Search for some boutique online, you may not need to find those 5 stars hotel, search online and see where other suggest for a good hotel or even motel or homestay. Don't forget to drop by a pub to have a liquor or two, you will have bigger chance to get her into the mood.