Premature Ejaculation Sex Problems

Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual problems among modern men. There are several definitions of this occurrence, but it is most often described as an inability to lasting longer in bed to a point wanted and desired by both partners. It is good to point out that the definition of premature ejaculation is actually subjective. There are men who can ejaculate with little to no sexual stimulation, right after they penetrate into vagina (sometimes even before that) while others consider premature ejaculation an ejaculation that happens after 10 minutes of sex. What can be viewed as a real premature ejaculation is the state when a man doesn’t feel that he will ejaculate until he actually ejaculates which means that he cannot control and manage the excitement.

What leads to premature ejaculation?

It is probably good news that premature ejaculation is psychologically defined. Many men want to be dominant in the bed and their fear of being dominated by their partner or that they won’t be able to satisfy their partner lead to this occurrence. The additional fear that their failure will become public worsens the situation. Of course, premature ejaculation can be related to certain injuries and diseases like Parkinson ’s disease or spine injury.

What can men do to postpone ejaculation?

In case PE sufferers don’t treat their condition, the situation usually becomes chronic. They can treat premature ejaculation with different medicines and techniques. Now let’s highlight some of these techniques.

Squeezing technique

This technique requires the assistance of your partner. While you are both near the climax, your partner should firmly squeeze the head of the penis for about 15 seconds. This action will give you a stronger and harder erection as well. The thumb is placed on the lower side of the glans penis while the first and second finger should be placed on the top of the glans penis. The grip will stop the blood flow and reduce the erection. You can use this method up to three times in one sexual intercourse.

Masters and Johnson technique

The simplest way to avoid premature ejaculation is to identify and manage the senses that lead to ejaculation. This is exactly what you can expect from Masters and Johnson technique. It starts with simple masturbation exercises that will help you learn when you are reaching orgasm. You can expect the best results if you practice masturbation with your partner. You can also use oral sex too. The main goal is to get closer to the orgasm without reaching it.

Some other techniques

Condoms can significantly reduce your sensitivity during sex. Many men feel that their excitement is reduced when they have a condom on their penis. There are also some de-sensitizing creams that can help you reduce sexual desire. Finally, don’t forget to change sex positions. For example, one of the most popular positions – the missionary position – doesn’t provide good control over ejaculation. Try to lay down on the bed and leave your partner take control of the situation. 

How to find the best sex position?

There are literally dozens of sex positions but not all of them are suitable for every person. We often, watch, read or even listen about how useful it is to have sex in a standing position, missionary position, with woman on top etc. Sometimes we accidentally take a look at an adult movie and see some interesting positions that look easy but we end up with pain in certain parts of the body when we actually try them. Keep in mind that it is not unusual if we cannot place our leg behind the head. When it comes to sex positions, the most important thing is to enjoy and respect your partner’s and your wishes and focus only on the feeling of sexual pleasure.

There are hundreds of possibilities when we talk about the position of our body during sex. Standing, sitting, kneeling, laying on the back, laying on the stomach and many more. When you are trying to find the right sex position you must be honest about your abilities. For example, if you have certain difficulties with your knees, you don’t want to put additional pressure on them. Finding the best sex position is not an easy process, so the key to success is to explore new sex positions every time you have sex. The right position will help you lasting longer in bed, a good view of the body boost sexual desire and give you a harder erection. After some period you should start to avoid those positions that you find uncomfortable.

The flexibility of your body during sex is dependent on the position of your body. It depends on your desire about the sex or the feeling you want to achieve. Finding the right angle of penetration that gives you most pleasure is possible only through practice.

You might have noticed that some of the sex positions do not give the opportunity for those involved in a sex act to use their hands or legs. The reason behind this is the fact that when we think about various sex positions very often we focus on the penetration act alone and the genitalia and we forget how important element of the sexual intercourse our hands and legs are.

Finding the right rhythm is also very important in our quest to find the best sex position. In some cases, the penis can have “the right” size, the penetration can be deep enough and the whole atmosphere can be erotic enough but between partners might miss the rhythm and synched movement of the bodies which results in mediocre or even bad sex. Of course, the rhythm is extremely important for the sex act and if you find that certain sex position makes hard for you and your partner to create a synched movement of the bodies, maybe it’s time to find another sex position.

Remember that all these things function together and they are linked. Since you have probably read a lot on this topic, it is not unusual if you ask yourself whether you are missing something when you use the missionary position all the time. If some couples enjoy more acrobatic positions this doesn’t mean that you have to enjoy it too. Stick to the positions that make you and your partner sexually satisfied.