Thursday, December 21, 2017
Achieving sexual confidence
Regardless if they like to admit it or not, a lot of people feel intimidated by the act of sex. And this is especially the case in the modern world when we are constantly bombarded with images of sexually powerful men and women through the media. So, it goes without saying that a lot of us tend to set really high standards for our sexual skills and prowess. There’s a discrepancy here, and frequently it happens for us to completely freeze when we’re about to have some sex. There’s also the issue of experiencing low male libido.
So, how do we reach sexual confidence? The easiest and most practical advice that we can give you on the subject is for you to have as much sex as possible. Sex is, after all, among other things, a skill. And all skills demand you to practice them if you wish to get good at them. So, give it your best to hone your craft and become a proficient lover, and with this new knowledge of yours, you will achieve greater levels of sexual confidence.
But what happens if you’re still a virgin, and you’re about to have your first sexual act? Many people feel really terrified of the prospect of underperforming in their first act of sex. Well, this is completely natural. If this is you, then the best thing that you can do is to just go for it, and try to clear your head as much as possible. Sex is one of the activities in life where if you overthink it – it may ruin your entire sexual experience.
Also, it helps to read up and get educated on the subject of sex. We live in the era of the internet after all, and we can find information on sex pretty easily. All we need to do is to do a quick Google search and we’ll find all of the information new need. There are a lot of articles and books written on the subject. There are also many interviews. And in the end, you can watch good old-fashioned porn for some ideas and tips as to how to improve your sexual performance. Be mindful of the fact though that in many cases porn is not what happens in reality – it’s performed by actors and the goal is to make it more watchable.
And in the end, all of the knowledge of sex and the practice of sex won’t make any difference if you don’t get things straight on your own. You need to allow yourself to be confident, and this is the most powerful piece of advice that we can give to you. If you find that you’re overthinking things and that you have a propensity towards panicking, then you can do some meditation to help calm yourself down. And remember, sex is not some frightening sex experiences. It’s one of the most pleasurable experiences that we can do in life – so make sure that you enjoy it with full confidence!