Foreplay is very important part of the sexual
intercourse and that’s why you should not skip this part if you want to
experience good sex.
Although many men don’t need foreplay, it is a well
known fact that most women need foreplay and since sex is an activity that
requires two satisfied partners in order to be unforgettable we should not
forget foreplay regardless of our gender. Foreplay is often described as an
introduction for the main act – vaginal sexual intercourse. There are many people
who consider foreplay to be more important even from the act of sex. It is not
unusual to hear women who complain about their partner who doesn’t pay too much
attention to foreplay – kissing, cuddling, arousing. They skip that and try to
enter the vagina immediately. It’s much easier for men to get aroused. They can
get stronger erection even by watching a naked woman, but women require a little bit
more in order to get excited and wet. Since the foreplay is an important part
of the sexual intercourse you can make efforts and make this part of the sex
exceptional.
Those who are looking for clear instructions about how
foreplay should look like and what kind of foreplay is the best, will be
disappointed to hear that there are no universal rules that apply to every
couple. Sexual pleasure including foreplay is something personal and it is
different for each individual and this is why you need to start exploring your
body and the body of your partner to get the first clues. Try to listen to your
partner and what he or she finds exciting and try out different methods in
order to sync and enjoy. A lot of women find kissing really arousing so if
your partner starts to complain that she misses kissing it’s time to act. Don’t
forget that lips are erogenous zone so you must use it every time you are
starting with a sexual intercourse. Kissing is good during sex too, it boost sexual desire within. And it’s
not just the lips that will make you excited, kiss your partner on the neck and
on the face. Generally speaking, try to make the foreplay more interesting and
of course more pleasing.
It is always good to remember that creating the perfect
ambience for sex is acknowledging the importance of foreplay and not trying to
reach the genitalia of your partner as fast as you can. There is a reason why
romance existed for so many centuries. For example, try to provide good amount
of heat in the room where you plan to have sex (usually bedroom), because cold
environment usually makes people focus on trying to get warm. And your little brother may have a soft erection if the temperature is way too low. Besides that
having sex under so many sheets and blankets can be complicated. It is always a
good thing to make a compliment about your partner’s appearance.
There is no definition for a good foreplay. The most
important thing is to be aware that foreplay is a necessary part of the sexual
act and that you should use your imagination.
