Thursday, April 10, 2014
7 Signs That He Is In Love with You
It can at times be very difficult to know whether or not a guy who interests you and secretly in love with knows and reciprocates. It can indeed be a big challenge if the guy is one of those who is shy of saying the three golden words; “I love you”. Some of the reasons why you may not know whether or not your guy loves you back are your own perspective of love, your own expectations on which way love is supposed to shown, your own insecurities and his own behaviours that may seem to show that he is not interested in you.
There are however several ways through which you can tell that a guy is indeed not only interested in you but loves you.
1. Considerate Treatment
A guy who is interested in you and loves you even though he does not say it openly will show consideration on matters regarding your feelings, sexual desire and needs. He will naturally be concerned about your well-being and will try to do anything in his power to make sure that you remain comfortable.
Many women consider a guy’s generosity to mean a guy being the provider of their needs. A guy interested in you and loves you sincerely may not say it verbally but will show it in terms of being generous with his time. He will want to be with you whenever he has time. He will in particular want to spend time with you during such special occasions as his or your birthday party, major holidays, Valentines Day and Christmas Day among other occasions.
A guy madly in love with you but somehow afraid of saying it openly will go to great length to show it by way of making you his priority at all times. In addition to being considerate about your well-being, his language or speech will change whenever he talks about is plans. You will notice him use the term “we” instead of “I”, meaning that he thinks of you in whatever he plans.
4. Personal Freedom
A guy in love with you but afraid to show that openly will always be mindful of your personal freedom even though he will want to be with you when he has the time. He is a guy who realizes that there are times when you need to be alone to reflect. He is a guy who understands you perfectly well and will know the right time to simply keep off.
Guys who feel shy expressing themselves openly do show their affection in different ways and one of these is by exposing you to those who matter to him. Such a guy will take the opportunity to introduce you to his closest friends, colleagues and family members whenever the opportunity presents itself. He will most likely invite you to family get-together functions.
Respect in relationships differs greatly from general respect. A guy who loves you but fails to show it openly will show you respect in different ways including being open, truthful and loyal to you. Although he may certainly not be perfect, he will try everything in his power to solve any issues that come up between the two of you in the most amicable way.
This is one thing that guys simply out to flatter and play around with you will never do. It is only a guy who is in love with you who will encourage you to do what you set out to do particularly when he notices that you are loosing interest in the same.
A shy guy naturally finds it very difficult to show you that he is in love with you. The only way to find out is to look out for his actions. You need to pay less attention to his words and instead watch how behaves and acts especially when he is around you. Listening to the tone of his voice, how he speaks and choice of words when he calls are other effective ways of knowing whether that guy indeed loves you secretly.