Regardless of whether you are married,
dating or simply in a relationship, one thing you dread is having a cheating
husband or lover. Recent studies conducted among both married and unmarried
couples indeed indicate that women fear infidelity more than anything else.
With study results showing that between 50 and 60 percent of men in steady
relationships and marriages engage in extra-marital affairs make it necessary
to arm yourself with some knowledge of knowing your man is cheating on you.
- No
phone call history – Many women have for a long time taken the habit of
monitoring how their men make and receive calls on their mobile phones.
They in particular watch out when their men retreat to other rooms either to
receive or make calls and take that as a sign of cheating. It is important
to realize that men who cheat have upped their game. They no longer
retreat to receive or make calls; they do it in your presence. It is only
that you will not be able to follow or discern what your man is
communicating! A clever way to know whether he is cheating on you or not
is to look at is phone records. Absence of call records or text messages
should be a wake up call that something is a miss.
- Multiple e-mail & Social Media Accounts –
Apparently, men who cheat no longer rely on their phones to communicate
with their women. They have taken to communicating through e-mail and
social media sites and Facebook in particular. It may be the right time to
go searching on Facebook just in case you are suspicious of your man.
Although he may use a different name, finding your man on Facebook should
not be a problem so long as you know how to go about it. A good way to
start is by filtering your own friends list!
- Missing Family Events – cheating men no longer leave
home early or arrive late. They make sure that they are at home as one way
of covering up their infidelity. Watch out whether your man attends family
events or not. A responsible man not involved in infidelity will always
want to be at every family event regardless of his work routine. You need
to watch out when your man suddenly develops the habit of skipping family
events by giving reasons that you cannot comprehend.
- Poor or Lack of Communication – How do you explain why
communication between you and your man suddenly stops? What of change in
his tone and the fact that he no longer wants to be so close to you? These
can be signs of several issues such as stress and infidelity. Your man’s
affection to you is bound to drop once he sets out to cheat on you and it
is your responsibility to ascertain if that is the case or not.
- Physical & Behavioural Changes – You can easily tell
whether or not your man is cheating on you by simply watching out for any
physical and behavioural changes. You definitely know how your man dresses
and his general behaviour. Although changes in dressing style may not
necessarily mean he is cheating, it should serve as a wake up call to
investigate further.
Living or dating a cheating man can be
very traumatizing and agonizing. This is your man and you have all the right to
know whether he cheats on you or not. It is only appropriate that you stop him
before he gets used to cheating. You will not only be saving your relationship;
you will be saving him too.
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